Does anybody else get reasonably annoyed/ upset when people drive on your lawn?
Is it possible to get rid of the grass along that area and install hardscape, like a decorative border, as wide as necessary to catch the wheel marks? Even if it has to be 6-7 feet wide and the entire width of your neighbor's driveway, might be worthwhile to get rid of the grass and construct a mini hardscape area and use it as a border if this is a continual issue. You'd have to do it in such a way that it's clearly viewed as part of your property, though. Otherwise, your neighbor's guests might use it as a parking area. Maybe incorporate a sidewalk leading to your driveway. This would possibly also eliminate mail carriere or delivery people walking the lawn in Winter, if you shovel/snowblow the area. There is probably a way to construct it so it looks good and not out of place. This is where either a landscape designer or a lot of design work on your part comes in. Maybe with some plantings near it. Could be a fun diy project if you have the time...you'd get to rent a compactor, etc. Of course if you have irrigation, it'll be a bigger project/more pain in the neck to dig up the sprinklet heads in that area and modify the system.Jeff_MI84 said:Long story short, six years three different neighbors have lived to my right. It gets tiring to go and talk to people and/ or attempting to level and reseed when weather permits. I see the first time or two as a mistake, followed by politely requesting to be more careful. Anytime after that, well I usually go out with my rake, quietly cussing while attempting to rake the grass proper and putting my vindictive 6' reflective pole in place of the more neighborly 3' pole.
Seeing as how this forum is full of people who take pride in their lawns, what have you done to cease such activity? Obviously different cities/ states have different rules about fencing, borders and whatnot, I could use some suggestions, aside from talking to people about it.
I'm trying to picture in my mind what you mean. When it comes to mail carriers, my mailman is super respectful. He sees me out there working on it and goes out of his way to avoid walking on it. Not current, but this picture is the type of annoyances I've had to deal with.Green said:Is it possible to get rid of the grass along that area and install hardscape, like a decorative border, as wide as necessary to catch the wheel marks? Even if it has to be 6-7 feet wide and the entire width of your neighbor's driveway, might be worthwhile to get rid of the grass and construct a mini hardscape area and use it as a border if this is a continual issue. You'd have to do it in such a way that it's clearly viewed as part of your property, though. Otherwise, your neighbor's guests might use it as a parking area. Maybe incorporate a sidewalk leading to your driveway. This would possibly also eliminate mail carriere or delivery people walking the lawn in Winter, if you shovel/snowblow the area. There is probably a way to construct it so it looks good and not out of place. This is where either a landscape designer or a lot of design work on your part comes in. Maybe with some plantings near it. Could be a fun diy project if you have the time...you'd get to rent a compactor, etc. Of course if you have irrigation, it'll be a bigger project/more pain in the neck to dig up the sprinklet heads in that area and modify the system.Jeff_MI84 said:Long story short, six years three different neighbors have lived to my right. It gets tiring to go and talk to people and/ or attempting to level and reseed when weather permits. I see the first time or two as a mistake, followed by politely requesting to be more careful. Anytime after that, well I usually go out with my rake, quietly cussing while attempting to rake the grass proper and putting my vindictive 6' reflective pole in place of the more neighborly 3' pole.
Seeing as how this forum is full of people who take pride in their lawns, what have you done to cease such activity? Obviously different cities/ states have different rules about fencing, borders and whatnot, I could use some suggestions, aside from talking to people about it.
Just an idea.
So they run over the poles?Jeff_MI84 said:I'm trying to picture in my mind what you mean. When it comes to mail carriers, my mailman is super respectful. He sees me out there working on it and goes out of his way to avoid walking on it. Not current, but this picture is the type of annoyances I've had to deal with.Green said:Is it possible to get rid of the grass along that area and install hardscape, like a decorative border, as wide as necessary to catch the wheel marks? Even if it has to be 6-7 feet wide and the entire width of your neighbor's driveway, might be worthwhile to get rid of the grass and construct a mini hardscape area and use it as a border if this is a continual issue. You'd have to do it in such a way that it's clearly viewed as part of your property, though. Otherwise, your neighbor's guests might use it as a parking area. Maybe incorporate a sidewalk leading to your driveway. This would possibly also eliminate mail carriere or delivery people walking the lawn in Winter, if you shovel/snowblow the area. There is probably a way to construct it so it looks good and not out of place. This is where either a landscape designer or a lot of design work on your part comes in. Maybe with some plantings near it. Could be a fun diy project if you have the time...you'd get to rent a compactor, etc. Of course if you have irrigation, it'll be a bigger project/more pain in the neck to dig up the sprinklet heads in that area and modify the system.Jeff_MI84 said:Long story short, six years three different neighbors have lived to my right. It gets tiring to go and talk to people and/ or attempting to level and reseed when weather permits. I see the first time or two as a mistake, followed by politely requesting to be more careful. Anytime after that, well I usually go out with my rake, quietly cussing while attempting to rake the grass proper and putting my vindictive 6' reflective pole in place of the more neighborly 3' pole.
Seeing as how this forum is full of people who take pride in their lawns, what have you done to cease such activity? Obviously different cities/ states have different rules about fencing, borders and whatnot, I could use some suggestions, aside from talking to people about it.
Just an idea.
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My last neighbor did. That or she'd pull them out and throw the poles to the ground. My newer neighbors don't park/ drive on it, but their guests don't appear to care if they do or not.pennstater2005 said:So they run over the poles?Jeff_MI84 said:I'm trying to picture in my mind what you mean. When it comes to mail carriers, my mailman is super respectful. He sees me out there working on it and goes out of his way to avoid walking on it. Not current, but this picture is the type of annoyances I've had to deal with.Green said:Is it possible to get rid of the grass along that area and install hardscape, like a decorative border, as wide as necessary to catch the wheel marks? Even if it has to be 6-7 feet wide and the entire width of your neighbor's driveway, might be worthwhile to get rid of the grass and construct a mini hardscape area and use it as a border if this is a continual issue. You'd have to do it in such a way that it's clearly viewed as part of your property, though. Otherwise, your neighbor's guests might use it as a parking area. Maybe incorporate a sidewalk leading to your driveway. This would possibly also eliminate mail carriere or delivery people walking the lawn in Winter, if you shovel/snowblow the area. There is probably a way to construct it so it looks good and not out of place. This is where either a landscape designer or a lot of design work on your part comes in. Maybe with some plantings near it. Could be a fun diy project if you have the time...you'd get to rent a compactor, etc. Of course if you have irrigation, it'll be a bigger project/more pain in the neck to dig up the sprinklet heads in that area and modify the system.
Just an idea.
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RCUK said:My neighbours are generally good and know I'm a fanatic so respect my little pieces of grass, but the issue I had was with some delivery drivers who think it is a time saver to reverse into my driveway rather than park outside and walk 10s. So I've put up bollards.
Simple pine fencing posts, metal tube at the base and pushed into the ground. 3 coats of stain/UV protection.
That reminds me of virtually every base I was stationed at. Perhaps I could procure an angry old Sergeant Major to yell at people lol.
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If people started pulling poles out of my yard I'd lose patience real quick.Jeff_MI84 said:My last neighbor did. That or she'd pull them out and throw the poles to the ground. My newer neighbors don't park/ drive on it, but their guests don't appear to care if they do or not.pennstater2005 said:So they run over the poles?Jeff_MI84 said:
Trust me, I did. One woman ran over and broke 5 last year. I do not like always getting the city or authorities involved, as I try to be the civil neighbor.pennstater2005 said:If people started pulling poles out of my yard I'd lose patience real quick.Jeff_MI84 said:My last neighbor did. That or she'd pull them out and throw the poles to the ground. My newer neighbors don't park/ drive on it, but their guests don't appear to care if they do or not.pennstater2005 said:So they run over the poles?
Your property line goes right to your neighbor's driveway? That seems odd. Do you have the driveway markers pushed in directly on the side of the driveway? If so, and I was the neighbor, I would be annoyed as well since the driveway looks narrow and they wouldn't be able to open their door without hitting the marker. It's maybe the wrong forum to say this in, but it's only grass, maybe a strip of hardscape is the way to go, or a raised flower bed would also solve the problem and keep things civil with your neighbor.Jeff_MI84 said:Trust me, I did. One woman ran over and broke 5 last year. I do not like always getting the city or authorities involved, as I try to be the civil neighbor.pennstater2005 said:If people started pulling poles out of my yard I'd lose patience real quick.Jeff_MI84 said:My last neighbor did. That or she'd pull them out and throw the poles to the ground. My newer neighbors don't park/ drive on it, but their guests don't appear to care if they do or not.
Yes the property line goes up against their driveway. The poles are about 2" away from the edge, but not high enough to hit mirrors. It's the neighbors themselves that don't park close, as they have another foot or two on the other side that they use (parking far enough away). I know it's only grass, but it's more work I have to do. That's why I'm looking for ideas on how to make the edge more visible so things remain civil. My driveway is the same width and I drive a Ford Ranger, plenty of room when I pull up. Something along the edge that doesn't look tacky, spiteful or out of place.DbShep said:Your property line goes right to your neighbor's driveway? That seems odd. Do you have the driveway markers pushed in directly on the side of the driveway? If so, and I was the neighbor, I would be annoyed as well since the driveway looks narrow and they wouldn't be able to open their door without hitting the marker. It's maybe the wrong forum to say this in, but it's only grass, maybe a strip of hardscape is the way to go, or a raised flower bed would also solve the problem and keep things civil with your neighbor.Jeff_MI84 said:Trust me, I did. One woman ran over and broke 5 last year. I do not like always getting the city or authorities involved, as I try to be the civil neighbor.pennstater2005 said:If people started pulling poles out of my yard I'd lose patience real quick.
Maybe a foot or so wide layer of washed river stone? You could pile it in higher than the level of their driveway and it would discourage them from driving on it. I'm thinking the smooth fist size rocks.Jeff_MI84 said:Yes the property line goes up against their driveway. The poles are about 2" away from the edge, but not high enough to hit mirrors. It's the neighbors themselves that don't park close, as they have another foot or two on the other side that they use (parking far enough away). I know it's only grass, but it's more work I have to do. That's why I'm looking for ideas on how to make the edge more visible so things remain civil. My driveway is the same width and I drive a Ford Ranger, plenty of room when I pull up. Something along the edge that doesn't look tacky, spiteful or out of place.DbShep said:Your property line goes right to your neighbor's driveway? That seems odd. Do you have the driveway markers pushed in directly on the side of the driveway? If so, and I was the neighbor, I would be annoyed as well since the driveway looks narrow and they wouldn't be able to open their door without hitting the marker. It's maybe the wrong forum to say this in, but it's only grass, maybe a strip of hardscape is the way to go, or a raised flower bed would also solve the problem and keep things civil with your neighbor.Jeff_MI84 said:Trust me, I did. One woman ran over and broke 5 last year. I do not like always getting the city or authorities involved, as I try to be the civil neighbor.
Yes it is weird. Although I'm guessing a long time ago, or before people re-did their driveways there was a small strip of grass that belonged to them. For instance, to the left of my driveway there is about 2.5" of my neighbor's lawn that technically belongs to me but I don't say or do anything about it. Maintaining a good relationship is my main concern, as they've only been here since the summer.Chris LI said:That's a weird property line situation. Maybe you can maintain a good relationship with them if you install pavers alongside the driveway. If you discuss it with them and agree on the style, maybe they will contribute towards it, or at least give it a blessing. I've thought about doing this alongside my driveway, for where my wife misses when parking. The other option is another type of hardscape such as pea gravel, white marble chips, stone, etc. You could measure out a width to your liking and put a landscape edge on the lawnside.
I like the idea of pavers. It is very rare to see that where I live. If I can get it to blend in with their driveway so it doesn't stand out, but also slightly higher to prevent further issues. I know with 100% certainty that there are no utility easements. Unlike something like a privacy fence, I've never heard about needing a neighbors blessing to do such a project, but it is worthy to look into. Is there a more technical term that I can use to look up ideas?Chris LI said:That's a weird property line situation. Maybe you can maintain a good relationship with them if you install pavers alongside the driveway. If you discuss it with them and agree on the style, maybe they will contribute towards it, or at least give it a blessing. I've thought about doing this alongside my driveway, for where my wife misses when parking. The other option is another type of hardscape such as pea gravel, white marble chips, stone, etc. You could measure out a width to your liking and put a landscape edge on the lawnside.
Maybe driveway edging? Some pavers are certified for driveway building (psi strength in concrete). Pinterest is a great resource for photos of projects. I did a lot of research for deck designs there and then looked up the town code for the technical details/requirements before we built our deck.Jeff_MI84 said:Is there a more technical term that I can use to look up ideas?